Four weeks into his freshman year, our son faced a stark realization: the dream college he’d imagined was nothing like he’d hoped. He committed to finishing the year and explored transferring. Juggling a demanding course load while exploring and applying to other colleges was difficult, overwhelming, and at times discouraging. In March, while other college kids were on Spring Break, we were back on the college circuit. The first visit left us feeling deflated and discouraged. The second visit was different. We watched our son, cautiously connect during the visit – a glimmer. That night he enthusiastically talked about where and how he felt during the visit for the first time in months, he spoke with hope about college another glimmer.
Fast forward, he transferred to the new college and the experience has been transformative. He’s found his place in a community where he truly fits in.
- Vicki Estrin